Monday, March 21, 2011

As written for Gray's dedication

This was written specifically for Grayson, so I wanted to include it in the blog. This will serve as a reminder to the promise we have made, as well as a reminder to Gray one day for just how truly loved he is.

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Steven and Kelly want to engage in an old Christian tradition of dedicating their son to God.

Matthew 19 says, “One day some parents brought their children to Jesus so he could lay his hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples scolded the parents for bothering Jesus. But Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me. Don’t stop them! For the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to those who are like these children.’ And he placed his hands on their heads and blessed them before he left.”

Steven and Kelly by presenting this child for dedication today, you are testifying to two things: first, your own faith in Jesus the Christ and, second, your desire that Grayson will understand from the earliest beginnings what it means to walk in the way of Jesus and to entrust his life to God. This is a sign of your prayer that Grayson will live and live again as a Christian.

To move toward this beautiful goal, you pledge as parents that, with God’s fatherly help, you will bring up your children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord, making every reasonable effort, with patience and love, to build the Word of God, the character of Christ and the joy of the Lord into their lives? You must guide Grayson’s education so that he can become a blessing to the world.

But above all these, you have two fundamental responsibilities.

First, you are to set an example for Grayson. What you do will forever shape Grayson more fully than what you say, so live well – with humility, gentleness, and service.

Second, your deepest and fullest responsibility is to love him passionately and faithfully because if he clearly feels your love for him, then it will be so much easier for him to feel God’s love for him.

Will you commit your life to fulfilling all these duties toward Grayson with the help of God?

Parents: We will.

No one is a Christian alone. No one can be a Christian alone. No one raises a child to be a Christian alone. We are in this together. We need each other. Steven and Kelly believe the old saying it takes a village, so now I turn to you, friends and family of Grayson.

This is your child! Grayson is your child also. We share the responsibilities of helping Grayson to understand the ways of God and to learn to live like Jesus. We share the dual responsibilities of example and love to Grayson and to all of our children.

So now, I have a question for you.

Will you commit yourselves to lead by example, of a life full of love and compassion? Will you love them and support them? Will you serve them as teachers and helpers and playmates? Will you support Steven and Kelly in the difficult journey of parenting Grayson toward Christ?

People: We will.

We want to finish this dedication process by sharing a blessing and praying for him. I invite those that wish to whisper a blessing to Grayson to come up at this time.

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Gray's Dedication

Today we held Grayson's dedication. We are no longer a part of a church, so we took awhile in figuring out how we wanted to do this. In the end, it was made more meaningful than it ever would have been had it been held in a building with our previous church family.
I picked today since it was the equinox, and seemed appropriate to me. We held the ceremony at Steven's parents house, and it was led by our good friend Anne. Anne married us back in 2006, and has been a dear friend of ours for years. She actually became a grandmother for the first time just a week before Grayson was born!
We also planted a tree in honor of our little man.


It was perfect, and I am forever humbled (on a daily basis) for the love that is given and shown to Grayson. We really believe that it takes a village, and what a wonderful village we have to help raise our young man in.

A moment for everyone to whisper a blessing to Grayson. It was such a sweet part of the ceremony. Even the kids came to whisper in Grayson's ear. Such a loved little boy!

Sunday, March 6, 2011

7 months

On Friday, my little man turned 7 months old. I can't believe he is now closer to a year old, than to a newborn! He is such a personality already, and keeps us laughing and smiling.
Gray is becoming quite the ladies man already. He has learned to wave bye-bye, but only shows off the new skills to ladies so far. He also has started shaking his head no. . .I would have preferred yes, to no, but what can you do!

He is not crawling yet, but somehow manages to move around all over the floor. He pulls himself to where he needs to go, or we see him turning himself around on the floor a lot. He has pulled himself up a few times, but we are in no hurry. In mere months he will be walking in getting into things. Hard to believe. I savor every second I can, and yet it still seems to go to fast!

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